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Decision Making

Decision Making
In life, there are things that God gave to us. Some are physical, emotional, mental, and also our general lifestyle. All these are controlled by our decision making which is the act of thinking carefully about the various possibilities available about a situation and finally coming to a conclusion.
The brain controls your action by helping you implement your decision. Our brain is always walking that why we make decisions every single second of the day.
But do you know the decision we make can hurt us? For every implemented decision there is always a side effect, either positively or negatively, also decision we make are either long term or short term.
Long term decisions are very expensive to make and they are also compulsory in life it revolves around every major activities of our life, at some aspect we might need the to consult trusted  elders like our parent, mentors, clergies, etc. because this kind of decisions determine whether our future will be plain and fulfilled or the other way round.
While, the short decision are made to justify immediate solutions to situations and problem. Mostly we don’t need anyone to guide us on making these decisions.
Decision making is one of the b freedoms given to us by God but it must not be misused at any point in time. Because “freedom is not the right to do anything you want but the power to do what we ought”. Do not misuse your freedom.
Remember, to make a decision our decision wisely, we must have a mission and a vision; a short or a long term decision may  appear in the future either as a blessing or as an obstacle course. Remain positive




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