Raising after failing

Rising after failing is a great, essential and available step for everyone to take.

Rising after failing require hard work, pray hard, confidence, diligence, patience, humility, temperance to aid  team work (because whether we like it or not we must work with people). Your failure does not define you because behind every success there is a failure.

Everything we wish to be in life starts with an ambition, start growing then try to fall (failure tries to come in) we have to hold it up till is able to stand on its own, but if we let it fall that when we become a failure.

We might fail but we are not a failure because life likes to push tests against us, it’s our choice whether to keep up with the test or fall for the test.

When you experience failure it’s always discouraging but, try your possible best not to fall again but if you do try to keep it up and always make the right decision (it’s important).

Remember, always surround yourself with people that encourage you in all positive things you do, never give up and you are free to be the greatest only if you don’t give up.

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DILIGENCE

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Diligence means to be determined and consistent when doing thing. The early stage of life (which is the teenage and youthful part of life) is the most important part of everyone’s life, the part of our life that require more diligence and hard work, to be diligentyou don't need a guide just do the right thing. To be slothful at this part of life is dangerous to life because it increase the rate of poor and lazy people in our environment which is one of the main source of crime in our society.

A diligent person is; always loving, thankful patience, attentive, careful and thoughtful when making decision, never Give Up.

The plan of a diligent person always lead to abundance everyone who is hasty comes only poverty.

A lazy hand bring only poverty but the hand of the diligent bring satisfaction.

The soul of the sluggard craves and gets nothing, while the soul the soul of the diligent is richly supplied

Remember, the diligent will always win the race of life and will rule but the slothful will be forced to work

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                           

KINDNESS

KINDNESS

Every car needs a propeller to move so is kindness to love, joy peace, goodness, generosity and also positive values.

To be kind hearted is beneficial, it is a way of building your future and similarly other peoples future on the other hand being unkind is not a choice for the reason that it give people a bad conviction about you. Learn to be generous and at that stage don’t feel proud or even tell the next person, let the good deed speak for itself because the main objective of kindness is to sow in some one’s life. Learn to say kind and motivating words to people because kind words are solution to anxiety, discouragement, depression, etc. it also encourage, it also keeps people going when they remember those words.

When you are kind you are always reducing load which are weighing them down for example, when a person needs a resource to solve a problem and you generously give that resources you’ve eventually reduced a load, it now left to the person whether to use the resource wisely or foolishly. If the resource is used wisely you might be building your future because that little resource you gave might be your saving grace in the future.

Remember to rejoice always; always encourage the fainthearted.KINDNESS

Decision Making

Decision Making

In life, there are things that God gave to us. Some are physical, emotional, mental, and also our general lifestyle. All these are controlled by our decision making which is the act of thinking carefully about the various possibilities available about a situation and finally coming to a conclusion.

The brain controls your action by helping you implement your decision. Our brain is always walking that why we make decisions every single second of the day.

But do you know the decision we make can hurt us? For every implemented decision there is always a side effect, either positively or negatively, also decision we make are either long term or short term.

Long term decisions are very expensive to make and they are also compulsory in life it revolves around every major activities of our life, at some aspect we might need the to consult trusted  elders like our parent, mentors, clergies, etc. because this kind of decisions determine whether our future will be plain and fulfilled or the other way round.

While, the short decision are made to justify immediate solutions to situations and problem. Mostly we don’t need anyone to guide us on making these decisions.

Decision making is one of the b freedoms given to us by God but it must not be misused at any point in time. Because “freedom is not the right to do anything you want but the power to do what we ought”. Do not misuse your freedom.

Remember, to make a decision our decision wisely, we must have a mission and a vision; a short or a long term decision may  appear in the future either as a blessing or as an obstacle course. Remain positive

GOODNESS

Goodness means to be of favourable disposal towards things. Its a virtue. Goodness also means to be kind and merciful. We can exhibit goodness as a virtue to our fellow neighbour and people around and even things around us.
Goodness is the greatest of all virtue because it is the only characteristic of a person that let you show kindness, joy, love, peace, and other good virtue.
Goodness can be shown by:
1.Showing concern to problem afflicting people: This quality makes us a problem solver, and also makes us useful and important in the society. NOTE: Problem solvers are the richest people in the world
2.Participating in things that is for the common good of all. To have this quality(GOODNESS) we must learn environmental quality; we must respect NATURE; reduce pollution.
3. Give when necessary
4.Always ready to give a helping hand to people.
Let us not be  like the wicked who scheme to rob good people or take away there valuables. No matter how often good people fall, they will always get up again; but disaster is of the wicked. A wicked person has no future because they already distroyed it with there negative value.
Remember, never hurt a good person because God is there refuge and he is there strength. Let us not rejoice when the wicked stumble because we will forget to learn a lesson them and always Never Forget To Forgive #NFTF

Gentleness

Gentleness  means to be kind in character to your environment both  to nature nature and to people; to be soft and mild; moderate in all things. We all need yo put a gentle attitude to all things at all time and should be known for it.
To put a gentle attitude does not mean we should be a chameleon i.e. a pretender because a pretender is worse than a restless person, no matter the circumstance 'always be yourself'.
Element of a gentle person:

• A good listener
• Does not gossip
• Keep good association
• Diligent
• Stays away from fight, quarrel, mallice, etc
• Discipline
• Patience

Remember, no matter how gentle you are people will always offend you . So Never Forget To Fogive #NFTF

Patience

Patience is the ability to endure difficulties, delay and persecution without compromising or complaining. 

A lion that is planning an attack does not do it out of patience or foolishly, if he does that he might be signing his obituary. You might say the lion is brave and strong but bravery and strength without wisdom and patience is total foolishness. to be a king in the open jungle of life like the lions you must be diligent, discipline, wise, brave, strong, hardworking and attack every obstacle with intelligence and patience. Team work plays a vital role in building your patience because no one is a lone wolf in the open jungle of life, you have o learn from your masters, walk with your superior and help your inferior grow because your inferior might be the ones to save you someday.

So let patience posses your soul, always be steadfast, immovable and always abound in positive values.

Remember, patience without hard work and sacrifices is just like waiting for an airplane on it's runway, persecution are test we must pass to have good success and Never Forget To Forgive. #NFTF   

Introduction

I choose to write this blog because i saw that something was missing all over the world,and that some fruit that nourish the soul, also makes us who we are and determine our lifestyle or way of life.
I titled it fruit that nourish the spirit because they are the the abilities that makes us fell like a human. They are:

• love
• joy
• peace
• patience
• kindness
• goodness
• faithfulness
• gentleness
• self-control and other good value and motivations

So I make todays topic:

• LOVE: In greek it is translated as agape which means an undefeated benevolence and unconquerable goodwill, that always seeks the highest of the other. Love comes first in my list because Love is patient, love is kind.(love) is not pompous, it is not inflated, it is not rude, it does not seek its own interests, it is not quick-tempered, it does not brood over injury, it does not rejoice over wrongdoing but rejoices with the truth. It bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. Love never fails. So think about that person you love and fell happy.

PEACE

Peace is the state of living in friendship preventing argument and promoting love, joy and happiness. This means arguments are bound to happen especially when people are close but are to be

prevented and managed, this is because of their difference in temperance i.e. to be close to someone means you know his/her temperance and as we all know we all have our temperance strength and weakness, so make sure you never hurt someone with their weakness.

So, fill your mind with things that are good and deserve praise, things that are true, noble, pure, lovely and honorable.

Remember, PEACE IS TO GUIDE YOU IN THE DECISION YOU MAKE; FOR IT IS TO THIS PEACE THAT WE CAN LIVE TOGETHER AS ONE NEGLECTING THE AGE, RACE, TRIBE, COLOR, GENDER, etc.

Joy

BE POSITIVE

Joy a great feeling of happiness, happiness is a great feeling of fulfillment and joy brings fulfillment i.e. without joy no happiness. But it is important to note that joy is not all about being fulfilled because even those who have been hurt in the past and seek revenge usually say “the day I get my revenge, that day I will have joy”.

But joy is found in POSITIVE VALUES and not negative values because the end of every evil is regret and all sorts of troubles and calamities.

Joy can be derived in many ways, some of which have been of benefit to me and might be of help to you. They are;

·         Being honest

·         Knowing yourself

·         Knowing your excesses and shortcomings

·         Doing things that prevent your conscience from judging you (because when your conscience judges you, you get depressed).

·         Staying around people who support your positive values.

·         Making others smile.

·         Building your future and supporting other people’s future.

Remember, LOVE IS WHEN THE HAPPINESS OF OTHERS BECOMES YOUR HIGHEST PRIORITY. And always smile because IT TAKES A BRIGHT SMILE TO MAKE A DARK DAY BRIGHT.

THANKS FOR READING,

EMMANUEL (BOLAJI) CARES.